do you have “maybe” energy?
You’re ready to get off the fence and start building something real again.
It’s normal for high-achieving femmes to overanalyze life decisions, big and small.
But if things have gotten to the point of feeling stuck in indecision, it’s time to use a different strategy—a fresh perspective to get your momentum back.
By trying to predict and avoid all negative outcomes, you’re resisting YOUR LIFE. Doing so is giving you “maybe” energy, and you might notice you’re getting served “meh, maybe” right back—everywhere you look.
So here’s the trick:
Your new reality is that you only have GREAT options available to you. Then, choose the great option you want the MOST, in the moment.
Why “in the moment?” Isn’t that kind of irresponsible and cavalier? To the contrary, my dear.
Who you are RIGHT NOW is the most powerful, wise, epic version of you that’s ever existed. You’re working with peak “You” technology.
And yet, trying to imagine who you’ll be in the future (and attempting to make decisions for her) caps you at who you are right now.
It’s a great way to feel stuck.
Our adorable dinky human brains cannot begin to conceive of the wonder of who we’re becoming.
Trying to make plans on behalf of Future You is outrageous and extremely limiting 🫠 not very considerate, tbh. You can probably even feel some of the limitations Past You inflicted on you right now, if you look closely. Rude!
You can’t imagine how good it’s going to get—so stop trying.
Instead, focus on how good it can get RIGHT NOW.
Here are some examples of ONLY GREAT OPTIONS:
Do I quit my job, or stay?
Quitting is awesome because you get to design a new life to your specifications. Staying is great because it allows you to not have to make any big changes.
Which option is the most dope for you right now? While both are good, I bet one sings in comparison to the other.
Here’s another: Should I find another corporate job, or launch my creative business now?
The former rocks for the part of you that l loves external structure, and has high tolerance for bureaucracy; you also get a ready-made set of people to work with, plug and play. The latter is amazing because of the utter time freedom, and radical levels of choice in who you spend your time with.
If you decided that no matter what, you would find happiness in either—you would. So which do you feel the deepest pull towards today? Don’t wait another minute; act NOW.
Ooh, this one riles people up: Have a baby, or stay child-free?
One option is great because having a baby sounds super joyful and meaningful to you. The other is amazing because of the freedom of a no-kids lifestyle. Which sounds more fabulous to you, as you are right now, today?
Your choice may be different than mine, because of what we each aspire towards and value the most. You know your answer. Now run at it. Trust yourself. You’ll figure it out.
Lastly, perhaps relevant to some of you:
Should you keep trying to find “free samples” of coaching to cobble together a creative business plan… or should you invest in Becca’s six-month course and community for the highest quality of prep for entrepreneurship?
One is great because free stuff is cool—and come on, who doesn’t love a trip to Costco? You can get almost a whole meal there, AND lots of great deals! Tasty.
The other option (investing in my program) is amazing, too, because it feels like the spiritual luxury you deserve, sets you up for highly efficient success, and gets you the elite support that will set you apart from most other people.
When we focus on the ways things are wonderful, and FOR us—rather than trying (hopelessly) to predict and rail against all the things we are afraid of happening—life transforms from a landscape of risk and obstacles, into an easy flow of what we desire most.
“Pros and cons” lists are crushing your ability to be fully present to life’s bounty.
Info-gathering, research, and analysis are just ways to avoid trusting your intuition.
It’s giving you “maybe” energy, and the universe is mirroring that back to you in all sorts of ways.
I’m here to tell you you’re meant for more than that ;)
By the way… are you feeling like you’re done at Costco?
If so, book your 1:1 discovery call with me now. We’ll chat about your goals and make sure the REINVENT community and course is the right strategy to help you achieve them over the next six months.
Love,
Becca