are you willing to shed layers that don’t serve you?

“Don’t do what I do. Ask what I ask.” - Elizabeth Gilbert

When you devote your life to your creative vision, shit can get weird and intense. 

The last two years, for me, have been a remarkable spiritual journey. The unfolding has, at times, been painful. 

I can no longer hide from myself, the way I create has evolved, and the space I hold for clients has transformed. 

Making space for these developments was hard. 

I didn’t want to give up late nights on the town in NYC. 

I didn’t want to reduce my high-octane adventure travel. 

I didn’t want to give up my nightly wine. 

You guys… I didn’t want to give up COFFEE 😭☠️💔🪦 (RIP, my identity as a coffee connoisseur). 

I didn’t want to let go of everything, so I could see what stuck around. In particular, friends. 

There were even times my marriage was a question mark. 

There were moments it seemed like I might have to give up EVERYTHING I was accustomed to, and start over. 

I’m no stranger to tumultuous reinvention from scratch, after all; if I ended up YET AGAIN borrowing money from my community and sleeping on friends’ couches while I figured out how to pay bills, I was reluctant, but emotionally semi-prepared. (Can you ever really claim to be “fully prepared”?)

It was intense. It was not what I f*cking signed up for. Giving these things up were not GOALS I set. 

And by god, trust me. I tried NOT shedding all those habits, behaviors, and attachments. I clung to them for dear life. 

But the more I resisted, the less I felt like myself. 

Sometimes we have a choice: get what you want, or get the PROFOUND. 

The impact I’m meant to have on the world? Profound. My daily level of creative fulfillment? Profound. The depth and richness of my personal relationships, and relationships with my clients? 

Yeah… profound. 

The way I see it, my mode of operating means that the level of self-care I need, the speed with which I evolve as a spiritual being, the outrageous amount of support I invest in, and the downloads of wisdom I can’t un-know will be equally profound. 

YOU ARE DESTINED FOR THE PROFOUND. 

You have all the clarity you need. 

Now it’s time to call upon the courage to let go of things that aren’t working anymore. 
 
I wanna chat with you 1:1 about what habits and behaviors you’re making room for, and what’s being released. 

Your story will be different than mine; the layers you shed will be uniquely yours.

Do you have the courage to let go of what isn’t serving you? 

Love,
Becca